kreolemami:

men claim to want ‘a smart woman’ until i pull up with a IQ to qualify for mensa and start questioning their opinions on politics while reading oncology medical journals at 2 a.m as a pass time.

John Carney said, “successful men date less successful women not because they want ‘women to be dumb’ but rather because they want ‘someone who prioritizes their life in a way that’s compatible with how you prioritize yours.‘” so basically men want someone who prioritizes dinner before having a professional career.

like so many women get divorced and have no idea who they are outside of being someone’s wife and frankly, it’s shocking and sad.

there’s a british study where researchers asked 121 participants about their views on intelligent women. not smart, but intelligent. and the findings showed that females with high intelligence in male/female relationships were always seen as problematic. the woman’s intellect was problematic but the man’s intellect was always viewed as ‘desirable’.

there was a time when only (white) men were allowed to go to college, now the demographic with the most degrees is (black) women. women are getting smarter and smarter, and yet men aren’t getting more supportive. [males] aren’t willing to accept second place in the “bread-winning competition” and this is one reason for the increase mid to late 30s marriages; women either settle or stay single.

ladies, you can be 4’11 and be so small and so skinny you cannot rip paper. but these men find out you have a PhD in Quantum Physics and work for Columbia’s Physics department, they only see a threat. you don’t need muscles and a 40 inch dick.

statistically, the most intelligent women are not polarizing about it, yet the majority of the male population assumes we are. they assume intelligent woman will correct them, upstage them, out-do them, and by God-forbid, make them feel worthless. and they fear this because this is how they make us feel.

stop saying you like intelligent women, when in reality you want the bare minimum to qualify for basic intelligence. what you really want is a docile, timid, meek, and easy to manipulate woman that stays home. what y’all claim to want is someone with five degrees that speaks seven languages and. there’s nothing wrong with either, but men still lie. and regardless of how intelligent, physically fit, quiet, and attractive a woman is, men will always seek after the lesser self-insured woman before honestly and truly admiring the woman he knows you are a want and not a necessity.